“Get it together, dude.”
“Ugh, I hate my job.”
“I have no idea what to do next.”
“I feel like such a loser.”
We’ve all been there.
Life can be hard, unfair, challenging. But no matter what life brings my way, I want to be always learning, growing, and getting better. I want to get the most out of my life and assume you do, too.
Whenever I’ve thought something like the above, it’s always come from a place of deep frustration. I’ve wanted and needed an answer. I knew something was off, but was stuck as to how to move forward.
In my experience, the real problem is usually that I’ve stopped taking care of the fundamentals. Part of the foundation of my life is out of whack.
So I start in the wrong place, putting the cart before the horse. I address the symptoms but not the causes.
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